The Gift of Laughter   

    A personal note from Fripp about what you will learn, and why you will want to buy this cassette album...

"Patricia Fripp and Larry Wilde have put together, not a treasure trove, but a national treasure of the whys and hows of American humor. It's the 'mother lode' that any writer, amateur or professional speaker simply must have."
Danny Cox
CSP, CPAE
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    The Gift of Laughter, Dialogues with the Great Comedians
    "The jester is brother to the sage."
    - Arthur Koestler
     
    In a conversation with my friend, Larry Wilde (The New York Times calls him America's best selling humorist) he said, "Making people laugh is the most specialized and respected talent in the arts. It doesn't matter how successful or famous or rich a comic becomes -- each time he faces an audience he's got to be funny.

    "In my attempt to shed some light on the serious business of making people laugh, an effort to comprehend the inscrutable, an endeavor to gain some insight into the mechanics and craft of comedy, I invested three years interviewing some of the best known funny people and wrote my book, Great Comedians Talk About Comedy."

    I was fascinated with Larry's stories of his conversations with these comedians. I convinced him to let me interview him about the insights he gained and life-long lessons learned. The result is "The Gift of Laughter: Dialogues with The Great Comedians."

    Larry also said, "Some sociologists believe that the love of laughter was inherent in most cultures of early history. Today's laugh makers are the direct descendents of harlequins, clowns and court jesters. And like their historic counterparts the current crop of comics is irreverent, inventive and uncommonly gifted."

    As a professional speaker and executive speech coach, I know even the most serious message delivered on the wings of humor can have a profound effect on the audience, and often enhances learning. I was curious to ask Larry:

    How did they evoke laughter?
    What motivated them to want to make an audience laugh?
    Was this ability something anyone could learn or is it a talent one was born with?
    Did the hysterically funny material they created come about by accident?
    Were they meticulously written, planned and polished to perfection?
    How much of what they did was really ad lib?

    Larry told me "Hearing the comedians talk about their craft you quickly comprehend that there is considerably more to making people laugh than skill in telling jokes."

    These are some insights Larry learned:

    • Jack Benny pointed out that simply evoking laughter was not enough. "There has to be something more than just getting laughs. Laughs are not everything. People can scream at a comedian and yet can't remember anything afterwards to talk about. To become successful, they must like you very much...they must have a feeling, like, 'Gee, I wish he was a friend of mine. I wish he was a relative.'"

    • Woody Allen's view on achieving stardom is that "it isn't the jokes...it's the individual himself. It's the funny-character emergence that does it. The best material in the world in the hands of a guy who is a hack or doesn't know how to deliver jokes is not going to mean anything."

    • Danny Thomas put it another way: "For the younger people coming up...it's what you say and how you say it that gets you to where you become a who ... and when you become a who your material doesn't have to be as good."

    Although each comedian Larry interviewed represents a different area of the comedy spectrum, he said they all shared certain basic common characteristics: endless enthusiasm, enormous energy and extraordinary self-awareness.

    What may come as a surprise to you as you listen to the interviews and Larry's observations, and 20 excerpts of conversations, is the enormous intelligence, remarkable sensitivity and astonishing demand for perfectionism exhibited by those interviewed.

    I was in awe of how thoughtfully these comedians answered Larry's questions...they enjoyed talking to someone whose life was steeped in comedy...which goes to prove my theory, that the quality of the information you receive depends on the quality of your questions. As I listened to the entire conversations in preparation for my part of the project, I heard Johnny Carson pick up the telephone and tell his assistant, "Hold all calls," and Maurice Chevalier say "I have never talked to anyone for so long."

    If you want to hear my interviews with Larry Wilde the album is ready: THE GIFT OF LAUGHTER: Dialogues with The Great Comedians  "...all you'll ever need to know about the enjoyment, appreciation and art of performance humor"

    .....and the actual voices of .....

    WOODY ALLEN, MILTON BERLE, SHELLEY BERMAN, JACK BENNY, JOEY BISHOP, GEORGE BURNS, JOHNNY CARSON, MAURICE CHEVALIER, PHYLLIS DILLER, JIMMY DURANTE, DICK GREGORY, BOB HOPE, GEORGE JESSEL, JERRY LEWIS, DANNY THOMAS, ED WYNN


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       What People are Saying About The Gift of Laughter   

    "The greatest information I've ever heard since I became a professional speaker. Every speaker should have this album. It's invaluable."
    Bill Gove, CPAE, Toastmaster Golden Gavel Winner
    1st President National Speakers Assn.
     
    "The Gift of Laughter is a KNOCKOUT, HOME RUN, FIRST RATE production. Thanks for creating it, Patricia and Larry.

    The ideas will be a positive influence on my speaking, but more importantly the "gestalt" of it all will make my life better. I have listened to the tapes once, and will start round two today. I am struck by the sense of immediacy and intimacy that you and Fripp captured, warm and funny, personal and vulnerable, insightful and candid. What a remarkably inspired piece of work from its original inception as an idea within you to the contemporary extrapolation.

    I loved having you in my car and in my living room sharing ideas about a generation of comedians that I remember very well. You are welcome anytime.

    With admiration and appreciation,"

    Steve Wilson
    The Cheerman of The Bored™
     
    "Your interview of Larry Wilde was expertly crafted, extremely informative as well as entertaining."
    Laura Lagana RN, ONC
     
    "Thank you for your interviews with Larry Wilde. It was very useful (as well as funny) to listen to the tape. I started doing stand-up comedy in the fall (on top of being a speaker) and it has been a great, valuable skill to learn. Your interviews had a lot of excellent points and examples that will be helpful to me along the way. I admire your commitment to the speaking profession itself, as well as your high standards of preparation and program delivery. Thank you for those as well!"
    Pavla Michaela Polcarova
    CPR Coaching Services
     

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    Larry Wilde
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    Carmel Institute of Humor
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